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Helping Kids with School-Based Anxiety: Counterintuitive Skills and Techniques October 14, 2019 Jonathan Dalton, Ph.D. Center for Anxiety and Behavioral Change Intelligence, Creativity, Compassion Having an anxiety disorder is like


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Helping Kids with School-Based Anxiety: Counterintuitive Skills and Techniques

October 14, 2019 Jonathan Dalton, Ph.D. Center for Anxiety and Behavioral Change

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Intelligence, Creativity, Compassion…

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“Having an anxiety disorder is like being stuck in that moment when you realize you’ve leaned too far back in your chair, but have not yet fallen.” – teenage patient

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Adaptive Anxiety vs. Disordered Anxiety

Adaptive Anxiety § Keeps us safe § A response to real danger § Prevents the repeating of mistakes Disordered Anxiety § Results in functional impairment § Equivalent to a “false alarm” § Leads to unnecessary avoidance

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Why this is so important

§ Median age of onset 11 – earliest of all forms of psychopathology § 8 % of children between ages 13 and 18 currently have an anxiety disorder § 31.9% will have an anxiety disorder between the ages of 13 and 18 § 8.3% will have “severe” anxiety disorder § Only 18 % of these teens receive treatment Children and Adolescents

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Adolescents Girls

§ 38% of girls will have at least one anxiety disorder between the ages of 13 and 18, (compared with 26.1% for boys) § Compared with 4.2% of girls will have ADHD, 10.2% with have a substance abuse disorder, 3.8% will have an eating disorder

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It Didn’t Use to be This Way

§ Teens are 5 to 8 times more likely to show symptoms of an anxiety disorder compared with teens during WWII § Depression in teens increased by 37% between 2005 and 2014 § College freshmen report highest stress and lowest mental health in 25 years

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Now put this in terms of applying to college

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Where Does it Come From?

§ Doing well in school………..43% § Family finances…..…………31% § Getting into good college...…29% § The way I look/weights…..…26% § Managing extracurriculars….12% § Friends…………………....…11% § Family conflict…………….…7%

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Anxiety and Learning Differences

§ Estimates range from 20 to 40% of children with LD also suffer from an anxiety disorder § Most research has examined ADHD and anxiety disorders

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Treatment Works!

“Ultimately we know deeply that on the other side

  • f every fear is freedom” – Marilyn Ferguson

§ Treatment success rates for anxiety disorders with CBT (exposure therapy) range from 60% to 90% § Tragically low utilization rates (18% compared with 79% for ADHD)

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“You have a Ferrari nervous system. You won the lottery, but you need some special training to be able to drive it.”

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Avoidance and Fear are Teammates

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Anxiety Reduction

§ Education § Cognitive Reframing § Behavior Change

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Fire alarm at the top of the Empire State Building

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“Stop swatting the butterflies.”

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“Anxiety is the Baskin Robbins

  • f mental disorders”

§ Panic Disorder § Separation Anxiety Disorder § Generalized Anxiety Disorder § Post Traumatic Stress Disorder § Social Phobia § Specific Phobia § Selective Mutism § Obsessive Compulsive Disorder *

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“Behind the Scenes Footage of Your Own Scary Thoughts”

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How Anxiety Affects the Learning Process

§ Working memory has a limited capacity § Intrusive thoughts compete for limited resources § Threat cues are prioritized in cognition § Fatigue occurs more quickly

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“Imagine trying to learn calculus right now”

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Self-Oriented Perfectionism

§ Very different from appropriately high standards § Risk factor for eating disorders, depression, suicide § Self-worth derived from achievement and productivity § Tend to function well in low stress environment

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“The perfect igloo can kill you.”

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Teaching “Optimalism”

§ Optimal – “Best or most effective” § Failure as feedback § Adaptable and flexible § Accepts natural variation § Balance as goal § Success is not linear

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Flexibility is Strength

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“It can be hard to let go of what you know.”

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Accommodating vs. Enabling

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“The Protection Trap”

Anxiety is Temporary and Harmless; Avoidance can Ruin Lives

§ 40% of parents of children with anxiety disorders have also had an anxiety disorder § Good parents are motivated to reduce a child’s distress. This often leads them to become complicit with child’s avoidant behavior

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Ways to Reduce Problematic Behaviors

§ Punishment

§ Usually has a higher correlation with the mood of parent that behavior of child

§ Extinction

§ Necessary but rarely sufficient

§ Reinforcement of incompatible positive behaviors (positive opposites)

§ Foundation of most successful behavior plans

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“Here is some food. Now go away and don’t ever beg again!”

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Basic Template for the Treatment

  • f Anxiety Disorders in

Adolescents

§ Assessment § Psychoeducation § Cognitive Reappraisal Strategies § Exposure § Parent Training § Relapse Prevention

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Psychoeducation

“Here is the owner’s manual for you nervous system”

§ “Good package deal” § Acquisition, maintenance, and extinction of fear response § Importance of decreasing avoidance § Concept of exposure § Outlasting fear

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“No good parent would just give their child the

  • answer. They need to learn how to solve it.”
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“Model what you want the child to fee;.”

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“Water the seeds, not the weeds.”

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Cognitive Reappraisal of Anxious Arousal

“Don’t believe everything you think!”

§ Body is doing the right thing at the wrong time § Perspective of “curious observer” § “In this moment…” § Metaphor of fire alarm

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Coping Cards

“Just because I’m scared…” § I am stronger than my fear § Scary thoughts can never hurt me § I know I can do this because… § Just because I’m scared doesn’t mean I can’t do it § It’s ok to be scared § Just do it anyway § Anxiety is temporary and harmless

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Which is the Path to Success?

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Ray Charles

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Jonathan Dalton, Ph.D. Center for Anxiety and Behavioral Change www.changeanxiety.com drdalton@changeanxiety.com 301-610-7850